Never in My Lifetime. Why This Moment in the American Presidency Is Different.


“If you see something that is not right, you have a moral obligation to say something.”
—John Lewis (1940–2020). Civil Rights leader and U.S. Congressman.


Ebenezer Scrooge I am not.

Ask anyone. Ask everyone. I’ll wager you won’t find a soul who has ever called me stingy, sour, or mean-spirited.

Yet, this holiday season, I’ve felt a bit of a Bah, Humbug mood creeping in, not about Christmas or the lights or the joy around me, but about something else entirely. It’s something heavier. It’s something I didn’t expect to feel at seventy-eight.

So make yourself a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate, and pull up a chair beside me. Let me tell you what’s stirring.

It begins, I suppose, with the one clear advantage that comes with age: hindsight.

Last month, I turned seventy-eight. Candidly, I’ve been looking back at the past decades a lot this year, not from a personal angle, but a political one.

I’ve lived through a lot, and I have a vantage point that people younger than I simply don’t.

I grew up in the shadow of McCarthyism (the early 1950s), when suspicion was a national pastime.

I remember the shock of four assassinations—JFK in ’63, Malcolm X in ’65, and both Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert Kennedy in ’68.

I watched the Civil Rights movement reshape the country through the 1950s and 60s.

I lived through the long, grinding years of Vietnam (1955–1975) and the protests that defined a generation.

I witnessed the unraveling of trust during Watergate (1972–74).

I saw Reagan confront the final act of the Cold War in the 1980s.

I watched America enter Iraq and Afghanistan after 9/11, wars that stretched from 2001 to 2021.

I’ve felt the impact of multiple economic crashes—1973, 1987, 2000, 2008.

And I lived through the Obama years (2009–2016), a hopeful presidency during a time when the country’s political divides were hardening in ways none of us fully saw coming.

Looking back across all the turmoil, the marches, the reckonings, the wars, and the scandals, I’ve realized something I didn’t expect. Our protests have always had a focus: an issue, a cause, a policy, a war. They rose up around ideas that divided us or injustices that demanded attention. Even the most explosive chapters of my lifetime had a center of gravity that wasn’t a single person but the larger forces shaping the country.

But what we’re witnessing now feels different. In fact, it is different. In nearly eight decades of watching this nation rise, fracture, heal, and reinvent itself, I’ve never seen sustained nationwide protests aimed not at a policy or a war, but at a president himself. The center of gravity has shifted. The outrage isn’t about an issue—it’s about the individual. It’s about the president.

Don’t get me wrong: we’re still seeing the familiar issue-driven protests that have always been part of American life. People are marching about immigration policy, climate change, book bans, economic strains, reproductive rights, and a dozen other concerns that flare and fade as the political winds shift. That part hasn’t changed.

What has changed—what stands apart from every era I’ve lived through—is the scale and persistence of the protests aimed not at a policy but at the president himself. The “No Kings” movement isn’t fighting over legislation; it’s rejecting the idea of one man placing himself above the laws that govern the rest of us. And in my lifetime, that is unprecedented.

The protests I’m talking about aren’t the usual disagreements over taxes, foreign policy, or legislation. They’re about the president’s conduct, his rhetoric, his legal troubles, and the fear—spoken openly now—that democratic norms cannot hold under his influence. People are marching about character, about fitness, about the very idea of what the presidency should represent. That’s new. In my lifetime, no president has drawn this kind of personal, sustained, multi-city repudiation simply by virtue of who he is.

It matters because when protests shift from policies to personalities, the stakes change. Policies can be debated, amended, reversed; they live in the realm of argument. But when millions of people focus their alarm on a single leader—on temperament, on truthfulness, on respect for institutions—that signals a deeper fracture. It means the country is no longer arguing about what we should do, but about who we are willing to trust with power. I’ve never seen that question asked so loudly, or by so many, in the streets.

I’ve seen my share of turbulence. I’ve watched this country reinvent itself more than once. But this moment feels distinct, and I find myself wanting to name it before history reframes it for us. Not to alarm, but to observe. Not to predict, but to remember. For all my years watching this country rise and falter, I’ve never seen a presidency provoke this kind of personal outcry. Saying so feels like the least a witness can do.

Maybe that’s the real value of hindsight. It’s the quiet ability to say, “This is new,” without shouting and without shrinking from it. I don’t claim special wisdom, but I do claim a long view. From that view, this moment stands out.

If this moment truly is different—and it is—then it cannot be met with habits borrowed from easier times. Recognizing what is new is not enough. Witness alone does not stabilize a democracy. A moment like this places demands on those who live through it, not as spectators, but as citizens. It asks more than opinion and more than outrage. It asks for conduct.

This moment requires attention that is disciplined rather than entertained. It requires tracking what actually changes—laws altered, norms broken, power consolidated—instead of reacting to spectacle. It requires noticing patterns rather than isolated scandals and refusing to look away simply because we are tired. Exhaustion is not neutral; it benefits whoever gains from our distraction. Paying attention is labor, and right now that labor is necessary.

This moment requires honesty that refuses euphemism. It requires naming corruption as corruption, authoritarian behavior as authoritarian, and cruelty as cruelty, even when doing so makes conversations uncomfortable or costly. It requires resisting the urge to soften language so others can remain disengaged. It also requires self-examination, asking whether silence, politeness, or a desire to avoid conflict has quietly become moral retreat. Democracies do not fail only because of liars; they fail when too many people choose comfort over truth.

This moment requires steadiness that is grounded in self-command rather than denial. It requires rejecting panic, resisting despair, and refusing the addictive churn of outrage that leaves nothing behind but fatigue. It requires consistency—staying informed when the news is grim, voting every time, and continuing to show up after the drama fades and only responsibility remains. Strongmen thrive on chaos. Steady citizens deprive them of that advantage.

This moment requires participation that goes beyond holding opinions. It requires voting in every election and helping others do the same. It requires supporting institutions under pressure—courts, schools, libraries, journalists, and election workers—because they slow the abuse of power and protect the rule of law. It requires showing up locally, where power is quieter but more reachable, and where absence carries consequences. Democracy is not sustained by commentary alone; it is sustained by persistent, ordinary involvement.

This moment requires refusal to normalize what would once have shocked us. It requires refusal to excuse behavior simply because it has become familiar and refusal to accept that “this is just how things are now.” It requires refusing to let fatigue become permission. Refusal is not negativity; it is boundary-setting. Democracies collapse when citizens gradually accept what they should never have agreed to tolerate, and refusal is how those lines are held.

Whatever comes next, I’ll keep trusting the clarity that age has sharpened rather than dulled. Though the season might tempt me to climb the nearest chimney and holler Bah, Humbug into the cold mountain air, I won’t. Scrooge may have needed three ghosts to find his hope again, but I’ve lived long enough to know where mine comes from. It comes from the stubborn resilience of ordinary people. Like you. Like me.

Even now—especially now—I choose to believe in our power to bend this country toward something better. We’ve done it before. Whether we do it again will depend on what we’re willing to notice, to protect, and to refuse.

4 thoughts on “Never in My Lifetime. Why This Moment in the American Presidency Is Different.

  1. very well stated and I join you in the alarm of the past decade. I never thought we were a country of hate and cruelty but the widespread display of hate proves me wrong. I am tired but I know we cannot rest and must fight for decency.

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  2. What a well written, thoughtful piece.
    You don’t know me. I came upon your essay through Ann Heap. I am nearly your contemporary and I too have lived through a bit of history. That entitles me, I believe, to have a different take on the malaise affecting the country.
    The problem is not just Donald Trump, although he is a big part of it. It’s what he and his enablers have done, as Joe Biden might put it, to the soul of America. It’s also what has been happening at an accelerating pace since Lyndon Johnson lied to the American people about Vietnam, to the relationship between the citizens of this nation and their government,
    We have experienced an amicable, rather emotionless, breakup of the marriage between the nation, as nation, and the people. I remember as a child watching military parades on Veterans Days down the main street of my small town and clapping along with the rest of the crowd for the tanks, the flags, and marching soldiers. Everyone around was truly proud to be an American. Lee Greenwood was merely drawing on nostalgia decades later when he wrote his song. I was too young to appreciate it at the time, but the people were in the thrall of victory in World War II, hopeful for the future, and as a demographic cohort engaged in producing the Baby Boom generation. Optimism and confidence reigned.
    In the 2024 presidential election only 64% of eligible voters bothered to do so while the plurality stayed home. What’s going on? It was the most consequential election in memory, the media did their job of reporting the issues, and yet, crickets. The fringies on both ends of the spectrum produced ad hominem, lies and vitriol to feed the prejudices of their respective tribes, but the largest bloc sat out. People threw up their hands or picked the narrative that suited them best and trudged off to vote. The MAGA brand, and especially Donald Trump, made up the most absurd whoppers; impossible to disprove without a great deal of research; and convinced his believers, who were hearing what they wanted, that he was right. The opposition followed with stories of its own and it has become difficult to distinguish truth from lies that are credible in context. That left people in a quandary which they solved by going with the story they liked and dropping veracity as a criterion, or simply abandoning interest in politics.
    At the same time, government became increasingly irrelevant to people’s everyday lives. The internet allowed support groups of like-minded individuals, unlimited solipsism, and it removed for many the need to interact with real people. Society, if understood as civic organizations, religion, social groups, and participation in government, became unnecessary and increasingly annoying. Social skills, once prized and practiced, atrophied on a national scale. Feeling removed the actions of government and at the same time powerless to influence them many stopped trying. They may conceive of government like weather: a powerful, irrational, potentially dangerous force that cannot be acted upon. Many have ghosted the outside world, including the way we organize ourselves as a society, and want nothing more than to be left alone and have access to life’s basic necessities. Its a divorce without much fire, more like a resignation.
    Ironically the scarcities that Trump has brought on, are, to my mind, cause for momentary optimism. MAGA greed and the momentum it is building for a tri-partite world with ruling classes, facilitators, and everyone else in extreme poverty and with zero agency, has caused palpable, widespread, impossible to ignore, hardship. No one who has to choose between food and medicine or paying the rent will believe that prices are coming down. Because if life’s basic necessities are no longer a given people will choose to resist. They will become active, even if it is nothing more than going to the polls. They will be heard, and as long as we have a democracy the possibility for changing course exists.
    “As long as we have a democracy” is the qualifier. Here, I could not agree with you more that action is urgently required.

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    • Thanks so much, Brad, for reading this post so carefully and for taking the time to respond.

      I agree that this did not begin with one person, even if one has intensified it and is the focal point.

      Yes, indeed. As long as we have a democracy, action is urgently required. Now more than ever.

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